They are grabbing my wife's butt!

While we've been away...

2011-10-27T13:55:00.002-04:00

No need to explain my absence blogging; who really cares?

Here is what Hannah has done since last we logged on here:

Hannah fucked Ken again in a semi-threeway with me. I mostly videoed it. It was super hot and Hannah thoroughly enjoyed herself. We'd both love to make it happen again.
Hannah fucked an attractive single guy who was AWFUL in bed. It was another MMF where I was involved more...Unfortunately, she had to stop fucking the dude because he was so unskilled. I finished her off and we erased it from her memory.
We full-swapped with Shayna and Rod. It was a lot of fun and we found out that Hannah likes watching me as much as I like watching her. Bonus!
We found a new couple: Frank and Beth. We have full-swapped with them twice now and they are a lot of fun.

End of 2009: Going out with a Bang--part 4

2010-02-07T21:31:00.002-05:00

Catch up with previous installments of this story here.

It was 3 am or so. Hannah and I were in the hallway near the elevators, just a few steps away from Ken and Nina's door. We were dressed and could've left to head home but we had some unfinished business inside.

Me: "Are you okay with this?"
Hannah: "yes. I want to."
Me: "You're sure this is okay?"

Hannah had that look in her eye. She was completely in the moment and totally relaxed. Instead of looking relaxed though, it always makes her look a little bit more intense. I always joke with her that "the tiger is out of the cage." She smiled at me and gave me a deep tongue kiss.

Hannah: "I want to. I do. Let's go for it."

We went back inside. In a few minutes, Ken would be on top of her, lips locked onto hers, moments away from finally getting to fuck her.

Six hours earlier, Hannah was freezing and miserable. We'd been invited to a "lifestyle couples" get-together organized by Ken and Nina. Since nobody does this sort of thing in our sleepy town, we were driving up to the big city again. It was Saturday, Jan 2nd. It was one of the coldest days of the year and Hannah's silly husband had unknowingly parked pretty far away from the meeting place.

Ken and Nina had invited over 30 couples. Considering that it was a few days after New Year's Eve and it was cold as hell, it was amazing that even a few other couples actually showed up. Here's the rundown:

Ken and Nina and us
Shayna and Rod (tall, dark-haired quiet guy; tall, bubbly short-haired blonde busty wife)
Harold and Alice (bald beefy weirdo; homely busty blonde)
Jaime and Nadia (experienced swingers; latin couple with great bodies and baaad faces)

We invited Shayna and Rod - we'd been chatting with them online for a while. They were meeting everyone for the first time.

Harold and Alice were one of Ken's random invites from the swinger website. Ken probably spammed every couple in the area that looked like a 5 or higher. They had never met anyone in the group in real life before that evening (pretty brave of them to show up, eh?)

Jaime and Nadia were already acquainted with Ken and Nina. Earlier in the year, they successfully converted K & N to full-swap. We'd heard stories but we'd never met them. They were very nice but not really a match for us. For reasons unknown, they left after an hour or two.

We all met up at some blues rock dive bar. I got a big kick out of looking around at the mooks and burnouts, wondering if any of them had any idea what the ten of us were up to that evening.

After a few beers and some laughs, we all moved on to the goth/punk/techno/weirdo bar down the street. It was too loud and too smoky in there (why do some places still allow indoor smoking?!?) The goth chicks were fat and everyone was wearing winter coats. Lame.

Hannah and I spent most of our time chatting up Shayna and Rod. We felt somewhat responsible for them. Also, Shayna had her girls on full display and her cleavage was a little bit hypnotizing. Rod was really shy but it gave me a good feeling about them - I figured Hannah and he could warm up at the same pace and everything would work out nicely.

Hannah did manage to find some time to break away to flirt a little bit with Ken. Being the good husband that I am, I encouraged this behavior.

Ken's wife Nina was all about Alice - apparently Nina found her cleavage a bit more alluring. Or maybe it was due to the fact that 4'11" Nina had a better view of Alice's flesh globes, as Shayna was a bit taller.

At one point, Harold tried to chat us up a bit. I didn't really see any scenario by which he'd end up in Hannah's pants, unless he worked for a dry cleaner and liked to try on ladies clothes before he sent them away for pressing. Harold was telling me all about his various internet business ideas (if we were in a comic strip, my thought bubble would've read: "What's that? A dating site exclusively for attractive people? Why, Harold, it's brilliant!") when Ken came to the rescue.

"Why don't we all skip the rest of the bar crawl and go back to my place?"

To be continued...

Jealousy...

2010-01-29T15:07:00.002-05:00

Last night Hannah spent a couple hours chatting online with her new single guy.

Brad is a tall guy in his early 20's and he's got wholesome, All-American boy good looks. He also has a really long member, but I don't think that's a positive thing. Hannah is petite and has never indicated to me that she's a size queen. We'll see how that works out.

Anyway, a week ago, he sent us a message on a long shot but luckily for him, he wrote all the right things and Hannah thought he was cute so here we go...we're now exploring the idea of adding a single male.

I love watching Hannah in action and part of me is really excited to work her magic on this young guy. He's been drooling over the pics of Hannah that we've sent him. He has no idea what he might be in for...Hannah can go all night, achieve multiples easily, and on top of that (pun intended) she has complete mastery of every fuck position. She can deepthroat like a pro and she loves kissing and foreplay. After she comes, you can stay right inside of her and keep thrusting - her parts don't get tender; she has no refractory period. She's kind of a bad-ass in the bedroom.

Hannah needed to spend some time chatting with him to build some rapport. Unlike me, she can't just show up and get naked (this is a good thing.) We chatted together with him the other night but I'm not really motivated to spend a lot of time chatting with other dudes so we decided that she should spend some time chatting with him alone.

To Brad's credit, he's made all the right moves. He's been respectful and complimentary. He's indicated a desire to build chemistry slowly before rushing into any real-life meetings. He's made Hannah laugh and he's said things like "Mitch is such a lucky guy!" If Brad keeps this up, he'll be invited into Hannah's magic kingdom in no time...

But here's the problem: I'm feeling jealous. I didn't like the fact that I lost my Thursday evening time with Hannah. I watched part of the Celtics-Magic game but that didn't help. I played some video games but that was a temporary distraction.

Aaargh!

Jealousy is a ridiculous and selfish emotion. It reduces the amount of heat between us and it fouls everything up. Jealousy detracts from our shared experiences because it forces me to think about my own needs. Jealousy squashes the voyeur inside of me. I am both surprised and unhappy that I'm feeling this way.

I'm sure it's normal to feel this way - I mean, who would want to be blase about letting someone else fuck his wife? It still bums me out though...

For now, we're just ignoring my jealousy. We talk about the feelings but we don't make any changes based on it. So Hannah went on chatting and I spent the night grumbling to myself...

HNT - dirty girls need showers...

2010-01-28T07:22:00.002-05:00

End of 2009: Going out with a Bang--part 3

2010-01-27T20:32:00.006-05:00

Read part one and part two.

New Year's Eve is always a big letdown for me. Every year I feel as though somewhere out there is an awesome party happening and I can't ever figure out how to get there. Instead we end up sitting around drinking vodka on someone's shitty lanai waiting until the time of the night when it wouldn't be considered lame to head on home (in my opinion, any time after 12:01 am New Year's Day.)

This year was bit different. Despite the sleepy nature of our town, there is an active and thriving arts scene. There are also a whole lotta gays around (thank god for that, or we'd be a dreadfully boring community. I am fond of the gays.)

If you are both artsy AND gay, you can be part of the Gay Society Scene. If you are connected to all of these hipsters, you too can dress in all black and hang out at really expensive homes acting bored. We have a friend who is part of the scene so that is exactly what we did on New Year's Eve this year.

Only two things happened that were noteworthy:

Item # 1: Hannah flirted with a foxy older woman at the party.

"Hi, you're so pretty!" she said when they were introduced to each other. Hannah stroked her elbow seductively and they finished shaking hands.

It was a little shocking to see her be so forward. Also, it just reinforced the idea that I can never tell who she will be attracted to. She doesn't really have a type for boys or girls, but this lady caught her eye. Unfortunately for both of us, this lady had to rush right back to her night gig - standing around looking disinterested as the world turned. Boo.

Item # 2: Hannah also flirted with a casual acquaintance of ours who attended the party with us. We knew of him but we'd never met him in person before. His nickname is Steiny, and he's kind of the roguish bachelor type. He's in his early 40's but due to the nature of his job, he keeps himself looking decent. Once again, I had no idea that Hannah had any level of interest in him. Hannah's type is a complete mystery to me on par with 'who shot JR?' and 'where in the world is Carmen Sandiego?'

I know the answers to neither of those questions, and I also have no idea who Hannah will be attracted to.

Apparently while I was floating around the party looking for someone new to share my verbal bullshit with (this is my signature move at social gatherings) Hannah was being a bit of a bad girl. She even told him about our secret lifestyle!

Steiny was there with his fuck buddy gal pal Carey. Carey is quite a bit younger than any of us and while I wouldn't exactly call her "innocent," I was pretty sure that she wasn't going to be down with getting down and dirty in a quadrangle with us. So the flirting with Steiny was perfectly innocent and Hannah probably knew that it wasn't going to go anywhere. Still, the fact that Hannah would meet a guy at a party and flirt right away with him was a little shocking to me.

This may not seem like a huge development in our swinging journey but it did lead us into a good discussion the next day. Hannah was worried about how I might react to the idea of her randomly flirting with another man. I assured her that I don't mind it as long as the guy is respectful and considerate. And if she did anything beyond talking, she'd have to bring me along to watch or tell me about it later. I don't know why that kinda stuff makes me hot, but it does and I've decided to embrace it. So I encouraged her to embrace her wild side and act on her impulses a bit more. This discussion would become much more significant a few days later...

One of the best things to come from exploring "the lifestyle" is that it takes some taboo subjects off the table and gets partners talking A LOT about what's okay and what's not okay. It makes us more considerate of each other's needs and desires while at the same time, it can free up the individual to pursue his or her own sexual agendas.

In a vanilla relationship, is the gal allowed to tell her guy that she thinks some random dude is hot? Is the guy allowed to discuss the various shapes and sizes of breasts and butts that he saw that day? Vanilla couples have to spend their lives pretending that they aren't attracted to other people. Or they hide it from each other...

A quick update...

2010-01-25T21:04:00.003-05:00

Additional chapters of the "How we got started" and the "End of 09" stories are forthcoming. Some parts have been written already and just need to run past editorial (hi Hannah!) After all the parts are posted, the last six months of 2009 will be filled in and we'll move on to some more current stuff.

Some current events will need to be shared as they occur though, so here's a little teaser: Hannah has been shamelessly flirting with a younger man online and a face-to-face meeting in the future is a possibility. He's all about it, of course, and he's trying to move a little too fast so we just slowed him down a bit. Look for more on this as events unfold...

Speaking of Craigslist...

2010-01-25T20:58:00.002-05:00

I just had to share this:

I hope Hannah and I are still going strong when we get to that point in our journey...

How we got started--part 1

2010-01-21T21:28:00.002-05:00

How we got started:

My memory of exactly how we ended up getting naked with other couples is a bit hazy, since there probably wasn't one event I can point to and say "yep, that's it! That's why we started swinging..."

Fortunately, I can remember a few mile markers along the road to debauchery.

A little background info for context...

Hannah was unhappily involved in a series of long-term relationships all through her 20's and early 30's. Her "fuck number" is very low. Hannah certainly wasn't sex-deprived before we got together, but she never had the opportunity to go out and get crazy as a single person on the prowl.

Throughout my 20's and 30's, I had a series of shorter-term relationships (usually one year or less) interrupted by a few wild periods of "living it up" as a bachelor. I've been out there, seen it, done it, and got it all (mostly) out of my system. By the time I met Hannah, I was ready for monogamy. Even now, the thought of sticking my thang in one more new hole just doesn't get me all that excited anymore.

Hannah and I were so physical when we first got together...it is amazing that we even had time to get to know each other as people. I was hooked (sexy and sweet is a rare combination in a gal) and we married a few years later.

Early in 2009, when I started to kick around the idea of doing some mild swinging, my initial thought was same room sex so we could watch and be watched. Maybe we would progress to make-out/light groping with the right couple.

I had two objectives in mind. I wanted to let Hannah experience a small taste of the wild single life and I wanted to re-ignite the passion that I felt for her when we first met. I've always been very visual (what man isn't, right?) and my thought was that if I saw Hannah doing naughty stuff with other boys and girls, I would see her from a slightly different perspective and it would reignite the fire in our bedroom.

Besides all of that, I'm a dirty voyeur and I like to watch people get it on...

Hannah wouldn't have ever come up with the idea of swinging but she's generally a good sport about trying all sorts of new stuff. She kept an open mind when I started mentioning stuff like "I'd love to watch you make-out with a hot couple" or "wouldn't it be so hot if someone was watching us?"

That was step one. I threw the idea out there and left it alone for a while.

At some point, I think I kicked it up a notch when we were out one night wasted, blowing cash at a strip club. I whispered into her ear: "I'd rather be watching you getting fucked than looking at these strippers..."

She wasn't horrified (thank god!) We talked about how things like that are nice as fantasies but what would it be like in the real world?

I imagine that a lot of people would've let that thought stop them. Thankfully, we didn't!

Next stop: Craigslist casual encounters mw4mw ads.

To be continued...

HNT - it's a little bit nipply in here...

2010-01-14T09:56:00.000-05:00

End of 2009: Going out with a Bang--part 2

2010-01-09T19:54:00.002-05:00

Read Part 1 here.

We sometimes get sidetracked when we head back to Ken and Nina's condo. We all get along so good that sometimes we slip into "vanilla friend" mode instead of moving things into the bedroom for "erotic friend" activities.

We all drank more wine, watched some internet videos on Ken's laptop (not those kind of videos, just silly internet viral videos) and took our sweet time heading into the bedroom.

That may have been a mistake. Just as the party was getting started and Nina was starting to get warmed up, she broke away from her lip-lock with Hannah, shut her legs, and whispered something to Ken.

She had just gotten her period. Like, just that minute. Damn those internet videos!

She was a little embarrassed so she ran off to the bathroom to assess the situation. Hannah and I felt bad for a split second and then we continued on, working Ken into the mix a bit more. We're just that considerate.

In a few minutes, Hannah was on all fours, my cock sliding in and out of her slowly while she deep-throated Ken. I like this position because it affords me a spectacular view of Hannah being soo naughty. Ken likes this position because if he's not allowed to fuck her, getting a blow-job (an incredible blow-job, I might add; I know, of course, from first-hand experience) from her is the next best thing.

We played like that for a while until I couldn't stand it anymore. Hannah and I were just over a run of bad luck that lasted a few weeks and had kept us from screwing. I was completely backed up down there and thinking of baseball wasn't working. I tried everything: closing my eyes and thinking of human tragedies, short shallow thrusts, long deep slow thrusts, different angles, pulling out for a second and taking some deep breaths... Nothing worked. So I embraced it and pulled out and fired a huge load all over her back.

While I sat on the sidelines for a few minutes, waiting for a short refractory period to end, Ken went downtown on Hannah. He's a dirty boy and the fact that I might have leaked a few drops of cum into her box a few minutes earlier didn't really faze him. It's not that he's necessarily into creampie eating; I think he just doesn't care that much.

Eventually Nina came back and must have been sufficiently freshened up because Ken climbed on top of her and hammered his way to a quick release. Nina promptly rolled over and began to doze.

We made small talk for a little while until I remembered it was a work night. We still had an hour's drive home and it was getting late. We said goodbye, got dressed, and began our trek home. Hannah and I had both had orgasmed but we left feeling a little bit...unsatisfied is not the right word. Undersatisfied is probably what we'd call it.

Fortunately, the fact that we must have left some unused sexual energy floating around their place helped us out a few days later when we ended up back there for an old-fashioned orgy...

Half Nekkid Thursday!

2010-01-07T08:45:00.004-05:00

This is one of my favorite pictures of Hannah.

End of 2009: Going out with a Bang--part 1

2010-01-05T19:09:00.006-05:00

Ken and Nina are a married couple that we've seen a few times. After a lot of schedule wrangling, we were able to setup a dinner/drinks/debauchery date with them for Tuesday the 29th. Both couples had a bit of free time between Christmas and New Year's and even though it was a work night for me, we made the drive up to see them.

Ken is a bit taller than me, blonde, kind of a surfer type. Even though he is in his early 30's, he's got a baby face and a grin that I would describe as "Alfred E. Neuman"-esque.

Nina is a short brunette (she needs to wear heels to exceed 5 feet!) with a fiery personality. She's probably not exactly my type (or Hannah's type, if she has one) but she is attractive and super fun. Like my wife, she has a petite figure and a nice-sized butt (hey, maybe she is my type after all - lol.)

We had our first positive swinging experience with them and they are the couple that we've explored our boundaries with. They live about an hour away and are very busy with work and family schedules (just like us...) so we only get together once a month or so.

Ken and Nina are a bit more experienced than us in "the lifestyle." They are also a bit more aggressive in picking up couples, and the city that they live in makes a bit easier to do that. Hannah and I don't have a lot of options locally but Ken and Nina live near downtown in a big city in a swanky hipster pad. So even though they haven't been doing this for very long, they are already full-swap. However, one thing that we liked about them when we first met was that they didn't mind that we weren't full-swap and they were willing to move at our speed (while dreaming of converting us over to the dark side...)

So we met up with them on the 29th and we were both really looking forward to our next adventure. Here's a quick rundown of what we had done with them so far:

The girls kissed
The girls went down on each other (the first time ever for Hannah!)
The girls kissed each other's husbands
The girls went down on each other's husbands
The boys went down on each other's wives
Same room sex with own spouse
A twister-style tangle of bodies with Hannah on all fours and Nina underneath her, licking Hannah's clit and my balls as I fucked her slowly. While all this was going on, Ken was fucking Nina and kissing Hannah. I could draw a picture but it wouldn’t do justice to the beauty of the scene.

I don't remember in what order all of these activities happened, but the intensity level increased over the course of three dates. Hannah likes to take things slowly (god bless her for that; if it was left up to me, we'd be total whores and the delicious tension would be long evaporated!)

It had been some time between encounters and Hannah and I had been discussing the ins and outs of full-swapping. We both felt as though it was a big step but of all the couples we had met so far, Ken and Nina would be the ones we'd want to do it with. Even so, we weren't planning on going all the way that night (spoiler alert: we didn't!)

One thing I should note here: my favorite fantasy scenario involves "handing over" Hannah to the other couple and watching as they ravage her (in every way...) I would start as a voyeur and increase my level of participation once the bulge in my pants compelled me to join in. Hannah didn't really have any particular scenarios developed in her head at this point but she was pretty open-minded to my ideas. She isn't exactly bisexual (a possible stumbling block; in my fantasy the other couple works in tandem to get her really hot and bothered) but she's experimented a bit and overall she's a good sport about that sort of thing.

Ken and Nina took us out to dinner at a trendy restaurant. I don't like to eat that much when we're going to get funky so Hannah and I split a chicken marsala dish. Ken and Nina had steaks. We all guzzled wine and took our time talking, laughing, and catching up with them.

Eventually it was time to head back to their place and it couldn't happen any sooner for me. Ken and Hannah had been slowly building a connection over the last few dates and my cock would stiffen each time I imagined entering her from behind while seeing her lips wrapped around his dick again. He was dying to fuck her and I thought that it would look very hot. Kissing and oral sex was the farthest we’d gone with anyone - would tonight be the night that we took the last step?

To be continued...

Introduction...

2010-01-04T07:54:00.002-05:00

I'm Mitch and I'll be doing most (maybe all?) of the writing, but my wife Hannah has full editorial control.

We're a mid-30's couple just starting out in the swinging lifestyle. We have had a few experiences already (good and bad) but we're still fairly new to this whole thing. Lately things have picked up speed a little bit so I figured it was time to start documenting our experiences. In particular, this past week leading up to and including New Year's Eve has been pretty intense. I'll be writing about it in a series of posts...

In order to set the scene a bit, we have been together for 5 years and married for 2. We're both white professional and we're both fairly conservative during the day. I'm 6' 180 lbs, average build and endowment. I'd say that my best feature is my sense of humor.

Hannah is 5'5", 108 lbs, with a lean build, fair skin, and a bubble butt to die for! I couldn't possibly choose her best feature - she has too many to choose from. She is a bit shy (at first) and she looks demure and innocent but has a very high sex drive. She didn't get to have a whole lot of fun during her 20's so we're trying to make up for it by exploring our sexual boundaries. So far, she's having a great time playing with other couples and our sex life at home has gotten really hot.